In seven day it will be our 7 month anniversary, but how many more anniversaries are we going to celebrate going forward? I am hoping for 1 year, 5 years, 10 years, and 50 years. But I guess I only have 6 more months to make it happen. Some might wonder why 6 month? Because that’s the sentence I got from Katelyn. Knowing that she really cares about my parents, and what they think. And IF one day when we decide to get marry, my parents have to be ok with her. I know is my fault putting this situation behind, instead of attacking it. I know is my fault for telling my parents in the first place, without giving her a chance to prove to my parents how wonderful she is. I know, I know, I know. Therefore, I have 6 months to turn it around or else there is no point wasting each other’s time. I’m not going to use this blog to explain myself why I didn’t attack the problem sooner or why I told my parents. Instead, I want to use this blog as a reminder to myself of the dead line. To me this is a huge wakeup call, can’t put it behind me anymore, got to hit the ground running. The next six month will be the key to my happiness for the rest of my life or hell. There will be endless upset stomach, endless emotional stress, and endless bitching and nagging, but the end would be bitter sweet.
Love,
Ethan 11/13/08
18 comments:
Ass~~~you made me cry at work!
Ethan哥哥:
你們會一段困難的路要走
但別忘了你們有我們這些妹妹的支持
我相信我們"陳家人"都是理智的
你們一定可以過關嶄將
Katelyn未來的二嫂:
希望可以在下次的家庭聚會見到妳!
*~加油~*
Ethan - 終於看到你感性的一面,難怪BBJ會深愛著你, 你真是隱藏的太好了!我相信,雖然她說只給你6個月, 但如果你已經開是在努力了, 即使那份努力需要好幾個六個月, 她都不會放棄的! 加油!
BBJ - 我相信你的溫柔體貼, 耐心呵護, 是會打懂人心的! 即使需要好幾個6個月, 都希望你堅持下去!
Ethan~Thank you for your sincere words. From reading your blog, I know that you really love me (I LOVE YOU TOO!!!) and that you are willing to make things happen. I know the road ahead of us is going to be a windy, rocky road, with many bumps...but I know we can overcome it if we really want to. In the end, even if we dont see the light at the end of the tunnel, at least we try, you know what I mean? 6 months is not a short period of time, yet is not very long either, and Im not asking for much. I am not asking for them to love me, to fully accept me, but maybe just to be able to have one dinner together. As much as this means to you, if this can happen within the next 6 months, it will be a BIG improvement...for all of us. Even though what I can do is very limited, but I still promise you that I will do all that I can to be able to celebrate the next 50 years of anniversaries with you (but only 50? I guess....... >< ) But for now.....time is ticking.... tick tock tick tock.... MUAH!
*~Katelyn~*
真的好甜蜜喔^^
雖然不知道那不算短也不算長的6個月可不可以成功,但是已經可以看到Ethan的用心了
辛苦耕耘的果實會更甜美滴~*
天下父母心,他們終究会看到你的努力而愛你所愛! BESIDES,他們去那找這麼優的媳婦啊!!! 甘巴爹!!!
深藏不露的感性真的很令人吃驚
不過這篇肺腑之言也打動了所有人
尤其是女主角
雖然現有阻礙在前
但是總有皇天不負苦心人的一天
祝你們在最短時間內排除萬難永遠幸福甜蜜蜜
加油!!!
是不是每天都要在公司偷掉眼淚啊!上班真的不能亂看大家的BLOG!每天都有那麽多感動的事情發生!
Hey brother,
你們的愛和努力一定會得到認可的,聰明如你一定會成功的(所以BBJ那麽愛你啊),你的爸媽也那麽愛你,一定會愛屋及烏的愛BBJ的了。BBJ那麽好個性,那麽善良,那麽聰明,那麽賢惠,那麽漂亮,那麽體貼~你一定要讓你爸媽認識他,他們只要認識他了,一定會跟我們一樣一起愛她的!
BBJ, I LOVE YOU!!ADD OIL!! DON'T GIVE UP!!
我想...我得幫ETHAN回應吧...因為他真的很懶..能看到他寫這個已經很不錯很難得了!謝謝寶貝們的支持以及安慰...看完你們留言後發現其實留言跟ETHAN寫的內容都一樣感動了我!看完總是覺得還有希望...以~這個力量會想讓我衝著往前走...我想對ETHAN也是依樣吧. 現在唯一能做的就是一步一步的往前走...希望這條路是直得的也不會白走.謝謝寶貝們也謝謝ETHAN!!!我真的很感動!!!
Ethan............ Now I should really change my name to Shane!! Nothing will be hard for you if you have the heart for it!! I believe in you!! Add Oil! Add Oil!
shane.. where's ur GOGGLE BLOG?
Which one are you going to use it now?
誰是Shane啊?
Per Jen's request, I think I will change my blog to blog spot. She said she can't leave no commet on Yahoo...... But I am still not very familiar to blog spot... How do you categorize the blogs like I did @ Yahoo??
WOW~~~~~(this time not talking about warcraft~) is really WOW!!!!!
GREAT JOB BRO~~~~~~!!! GOGOGO :D
迼真的是從一個會在朋友面前亂放屁, 脫褲子亂露點 + 屁毛的人寫出來嗎? (我有錄影片為證***) ... 想起前幾天Jason MSN 我說到Jenny的事, 我才發現Jason變了, 看來這一次 (好像セ才一次)Jason 是真的, 認識你到現在己經16年了才第一次說人話...真有你的, 我們會給你"靠"的 ... 加油 !
I am sorry, but 50 years?? IT's time to stop him from smoking by any means if you want him to go that far!! OKOK, I know it's "Jian" for me to say that, but it's the truth...so MAKE HIM STOP SMOKING!!
Dear BBJ, no updates? Don't be lazy oh! :) miss you~
lazy lazy dear!! Please update more!!!
HAPPY NEW YEAR!
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