"Persons are judged to be great because of the positive qualities they posses, not because of the absence of faults"
Last night when I was online, I ran into a friend that asked me about "Ethan and Katelyn's World"~ He asked me when I will write my next blog because he has been waiting to read it. Before starting this blog, Ethan and I, only planned to find a place for us to write down our feelings, opinions and aspects of things that happen in our everyday life. We never thought that we would have "FANS".... ^_^ So.....after he told me that, it got me thinking about my next topic and this friend of mine was the first thing that came to mind.....
I've known him for less than a year, and although the time being isnt very long, we have grown from being strangers to being close friends. I remembered when I first saw him, I was very quiet sitting in the back of his car, on our way to Hooters for dinner. My first impression of him wasn't good....nor bad....because I didnt even know the guy! All I knew was that he was one of Ethan's best friend and I dont want him to not like me. Not long after we first met, we started to talk more and more. As we gotten closer, our conversation went more and more in depth. We talked about our past, our present, and what we wanted in our future. From these conversation, and with time, I have realized that I have learned more and more about this friend. I got to see a whole different side of him and it made me see the type of personality traits he brings out to us.
What are the qualities of being a good friend and what makes this friend so important to me is the fact that I know that he will be there to support me no matter what happens in life, he encourages me and tells me how to maintain a long lasting happy relationship with Ethan, I can tell him my secrets and trust him with it and even if it makes me look bad ~ he wont judge me on it, he shows me his kindness and the respect he has for me, I enjoy his company and know without doubt~ I can always rely on him, he is trustworthy and not afraid to tell me the truth no matter how hard it is sometimes, he is someone who I can laugh with and makes me laugh when I am down, he sticks around when things get tough, he will accept me for who I am and just lend me an ear whenever I need to whine and complain, and last but not least ~ things seems to be different and empty when this friend is not around....
It sucks to see and to know that this friend of mine doesnt have a significant other to share his moments with him. It often makes me wonder why such a great guy like him is still single? Girls, nowadays, are really materialistic and often choose the wrong people to be with. Its such a burden to the guys who actually really pour out their heart and emotions into building a long lasting relationship, because in the end, she will just walk out of his life. But regardless of these materialistic girls, who ruins the images for other girls out there, there are still good people. And you know what they say...."good things come to people who wait....." So if you're reading this blog and is single and available (GIRLS ONLY) dont forget to leave me a message and with your contact info....you're really gonna thank me!!! This friend of mine, is a GREAT CATCH!!! ^_^
Lastly, this friend of mine, well ~ he knows who he is......because last night, I told him that this blog would be for him.... I just want to thank you for coming into my life and Ethan's life and never walking out. We want you to know that we will always be there for you too and we sincerely hope that you will find a great person to share a fairy tale life with you, a "happily ever after" ending.....
"You do not know how much they mean to me, my friends, and how, how rare and strange it is, to find in life composed so much of odds and ends...to find a friend who has these qualities, who has, and gives those qualities upon which friendship lives, How much it means that I say this to you - without friendships, without you - life, is not life!"
*~Katelyn~*
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