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"It is by chance that we met, by choice that we became friends"

I've come to realized that I am a person who is easily touched. By reading a friend's blog, to hearing about some tragedy on the news, to watching a drama on TV, my eyes can tear up when I get sucked into it...let's just say....I'm an emotional sucker for people who are helpless. With that said, I am sitting here now~writing this blog.

I just found out that one of my friend had a blog yesterday, so I spent half day reading her blog. From the first entry to the very recent one, I've read them all. From her blog, I've somehow gotten to know her better. I saw the side of her, I never saw before.

The first time I met her, I didnt know what to think of her. I thought she was very cute yet she may be very mean too. Long silky black hair, 2 pretty eyes, a small tiny nose, thin rosy lips, wearing a pair of dark framed glasses, with dimples to die for. I'd always loved to see her smile, because she had the cutest dimples! The very first time I met her, this was how she looked. The first time I met her was because of Ethan. We didnt really talk much the first time, but I always thought she looked kinda mean. I didnt know why, but it had to be the first impression. 

As I got to know her little by little, I started to see that she was a very strong, aggressive type of girl. She had the energy and mind of a "21st century" woman. She was someone who I would see more so as a business woman rather than a stay at home mom. I dont know why, but its that feeling she gives me when I am around her. She was someone who I can see as a leader in every aspect of life. Whether its for her career, her family, her friends, or even her relationship, she was someone who I would see leading the path for everyone behind her to follow her. 

Lately, as I got to know her just a little bit more in depth, I've come to realized the saying "Dont judge a book, by its cover". Because......she is someone who needs alot of love and nurturing, she is just a simple typical girl who seeks to find her true love, she is a soft hearted person who likes to listen to what others have to say, and most importantly, her dream is to have a family of her own with little kids that she can care for and be nothing more than a stay at home mom. 

Her relationship, is one of the hardest thing for her to manage right now. The time, commitment, love, sacrifice, and effort, she put into building this relationship is not easy. I am sure just like any girl, all she wants is a happily ever after ending. I'm sure that all the hard work that she put in to build this relationship now seems overwhelming, but when that day comes, the day when she finds herself being a wife to that very special someone, and a mother of her adorable little kids, all the hard work will be forgotten. She may not say so, but I can feel it. People say that a woman's intuition is always never wrong, and my intuition is telling me that she may look like she is very strong, but deep down inside, she is very fragile. But I do believe that if you really put your heart into it, it will happen. So, if she is reading.... I just want her to know that no matter what happens in life, through ups and downs, I'll be there for you every step of the way. Just believe in yourself and that the choice you made is the right one. 

Looking at her, made me realize alot of things in life. It got me to open my eyes and see that what we use our eyes to see of others, is only a protection that the person builds to protect themselves from getting hurt. Looking at her and reading her blog, made me feel like.....there is one more person in my life that I need to care for. 

"True friendship is seen through the heart, not the eyes"

*~Katelyn~*